

Today we joined many people from different faiths to support Prop. 8. It was wonderful to see and hear many people who feel the same way about the issue. There was a Pastor from Abundant Life Fellowship church that shared an experience he had with his own daughter. Before they had heard anything about the state changing the marriage license forms to Party A and Party B, his daughter got married. When they got the license they wrote next to each spot Bride and Groom. They did not cross it out, just wrote next to it. His daughter got married and went on her honeymoon, only to find out when they got back the the state had rejected her marriage. Can you imagine? So, they got a lawyer and went up against the state. The state backed down. It is amazing that the state rejected them when up until just a few months ago it was the only thing on the marriage license.
There was a social worker from Auburn who spoke. She was very passionate about this issue. She gave great statistics about the need for children to have both a mother and a father. She gave the statistics about abuse in same sex households. She even gave the results of a survey from children who were raised in same sex households who said they found it made their life more difficult than those who lived with a mother and father. All of which showed the importance of having a mother and a father raising a family.
In addition there was an educator who came and discussed the issue of marriage in school. She pointed out that if proposition 8 does not pass when marriage is discussed in school, no matter what age, all options of relationships will be discussed. You will not be able to withdrawal your child from these discussions and if you interfere or even if your children comments on marriage being between a man and woman, it is likely there will be consequences. Maybe a note in a file, maybe a detention, not supporting that lifestyle will be seen as a prejudice.
Lastly, the thing that I found heartwarming was that they honored the American River Student Council members who wrote a declaration in support of Prop. 8. Everyone gave them a standing ovation and we prayed for them as a group. It was neat.
There are people all over the nation that have been praying and fasting over the last 40 days in support of all we are doing. Now we have to keep doing the foot work, talking to those we know and getting in our community to reach those undecided voters. As the last speaker said, we are not going to change the opposition's mind. They are not going to change ours, but we need to fight this battle with love. (Even the protesters that were there today were offered water and said no one was unkind to them.) We have to do this for our families and for the future of our children. It is obvious California paves the way for other states, so let's pave the way by making marriage between a man and a woman a constitutional amendment!