On Thursday it was 9 years since my Grandma passed away. She was my dad's mom. Grandma Peabody was the only family member we had that lived close to us. Her and I had a very special bond. I was her only granddaughter and her first grandchild. My parents lived with her for a while when I was just little, so we developed a great relationship from the very beginning. I am grateful for her because she taught me a lot of things. She was an artist, so she spent time helping me and my brothers explore our creativity. She was very hands on with us. She helped us build forts and hosted many sleep overs, even when were teenagers. She encouraged my love of dress up as a child by buying me all kinds of second hand clothing. She would find the best skirts and dresses so I could twirl in them. As I got older she became a great source of advice and the perfect listening ear. Physically, I take after her also. We have the same build and sometimes I see her features when I look in the mirror. It makes me think about her often.
So to honor her, I took the boys to the cemetery. We went with our bucket and tools to clean her headstone. It was so dirty after all the recent rain. It took us a few minutes to even find her spot. It was also REALLY muddy! (Notice Parker has one black shoe. He stuck it in one of the flower holders in someone else's grave).

So, we went to work. Parker sprayed and Josh scrubbed.

When Grandma's picture showed again Parker cheered, "There she is!" We also brought yellow roses. Those were her favorite. She had a yellow rose bush in the front of her house for many years that she loved. (She hated carnations, but her husband thought they were her favorite. So he would always bring them home for her.)

We spent time talking about her and things she liked. I know that she would have LOVED my boys and my nephew. She wanted to stay alive long enough to meet our children, but one day we'll be together again and they can meet. I never had the chance to meet David's grandfather, DeVerl or grandmother Eloise. I feel like I've been able to get to know them from the stories that the family has shared with me. I hope that by passing on those stories to my children, they will feel close to the great grandparents they never met.